I am 33 today. It’s been 33 years of adventures interspersed
with stretches of education. I’m poised to receive my doctorate in medicine and
my certificate as a private pilot. I’m unattached, a great skier – both snow
and water, and without debt. I don’t own a house, a dog or a cat, but have
found my favorite guest rooms along the way.
In these past 33 years I have studied my way through 28
years of education, 13 of those spent at universities, visited 17 states in
America, 24 foreign counties, and worked 4 jobs, including the requisite
barista. I can make a mean latte J.
I can also take your blood pressure. How’s that for service?
I’ve walked on the acropolis, over the canals of Venice, seen
the Tour Eiffel, l’arc de Triumph, Big Ben, the David, and the works of Monet,
Rambrandt, and Picasso. I’ve lived in the Kenyan Bush, carried water on my
head, found my favorite café in Toulouse, rode a hydrofoil, yachted around the
San Juan Islands, and surfed the Pacific Ocean. I used to keep elegant scrape books
filled with the train tickets and museum tickets, left over foreign currency,
and other useless memorabilia; hoping to keep the feeling of mystery and
accomplishment, as if those things made up my identity. I’ve become quite the
nomad, never waiting long enough in any one place to set down roots, rather
frantic to move from one adventure to the next, always seeking the next thing
to fill the emptiness inside me.
I’ve purged a great deal of those useless trinkets, but have
also kept and framed a great deal of them too. There’s a photograph of a young
African boy, shirtless, with the dirt road stretching out behind him that hangs
above my bed. My brother’s friend took the photo and my dad gave it to me. It captures
most everyone who walks into my room for the first time, and I venture a guess
that it haunts them. It drove home the point, the other day, that in all my
travels and knowing and seeing and doing, the places I want most to be are the
ones with my dear friends and family. The clear turquoise Mediterranean waters
are no match for the family cabin in the summer with the sun, the water, the
dock and family dinners.
I’ve been lucky enough to live near family these past 6
years. I have fallen in love with my cousins’ children and now want my own. Perhaps
it is because I have already been to France 4 times that I no longer feel the
need to go back; however, I think, its because to laugh and cry and hug and be
with people holds greater reward. I matter because those around me invest in
me. I love because I am loved. I give because I have been given much. Maybe I’ve
finally learned to stop running and be still.
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